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| Figure1: Catherine Yang regrets having a short term love |
However, is ''instant love'' really a totally negative proper noun? Does it really means that a person who fall in love fast and easily is totally reckless? Is there any value in the process of instant love?
Among people who really experience instant love, we find out that getting in love easily isn't their normal behavior patterns.
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Tina added, I think it is atmosphere that make me promise so easily. Catherine, a freshmen in English Department also points out the importance.
''Getting together with him so easily has many obstacles to face. For example, the different personality that we didn't even find out before.'' Tina answered.
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| Figure3: Tina Shieh is still in her romantic love |
What's more interesting is that when asking if they regret their decision or not. Catherine said that she somehow feels regretful that she didn't clearly understand her ex-boyfriend's values before falling in love with him.
However, Tina points out that if the two can change for each others and adjust the shortcomings, the relationship can go longer and stabler. Putting yourself in other side's situation is the main point.
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I would rather go slowly to make sure that the girl in front of me is the one I really like,or I may regret before long. Haha
回覆刪除I think love in one sight is amazing.
回覆刪除However, I think that no one is prepared to fit the other.
People should try hard to remain the relationship.
One disadvantage for instant love is couple do not understand each other deeply.
回覆刪除Love shall NOT be a result of your changing.
回覆刪除I think it's not good to change us to fit others' favor.
Instant love is sweet for ones that seek for a short-time company and it would do positive influence: they don't have to get as much pressure as those who seek for a forever lover, they can have fun and don't have to face responsibility of future and their gain in this relationship is happiness.
But when it comes to a longer one, it can be fatal when they don't really know what their spouse think.
Just as what Song of Songs said in bible: " Daughter of Jerusalem, swear to me by the gazelles, by the deer in the field, that you will never awaken love until it is ripe." In my opinion, we should hold our love more preciously or otherwise we may abuse it.
回覆刪除Your topic is quite interesting!
回覆刪除Instant love maybe can remain for a long time,
but mostly, lack of mutual understanding often result in breaking up!
haha..
回覆刪除honestly, i don't know what can i mention right here.
because i finish all of your questions and my boyfriend and i both think we are not the person who will love in one sight but just lucky to meet with each others in the very "right" time.
:)))
I like your presentation^^
回覆刪除It's interesting and....exciting XDD
I think boy and girl should be friends for enough time before getting together. It is more proper to know what he or she is. And it is more clear to feel if he or she is fitting to us.
A start of a relationship really needs enough time for knowing each other. If it begins with good looks, there are great possibilities that it maybe end soon after. After all, what a stable relationship really need are compatible personalities.
回覆刪除Very interesting topic.
回覆刪除In fact,I don't believe in instant love.
But what matters is that couples who meet each other through this way believe themselves, and that's true love.
Love is very complicated. Sometimes you don't even realize how you fall in love. However, there is one thing to be sure and that is always be nice to the person you love.
回覆刪除Many people say that love has become so instant nowadays. But most important thing is that keeping the relationship. Finding true love is so hard.:)
回覆刪除Uh...I do not think that instant love can keep a long time...most of my friends and their lovers think carefully about this and then they become each other's lovers. But I do not against it because it really depends on different people and their own feelings.
回覆刪除Love is really a unintelligible thing! I think it's better to slow down and "observe" for a while, but if u can know the person is the right one or not very quickly, instant love is ok~
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