Different Face About Instant Love (2.2 version)

NCU, Taiwan—There is a saying that university students fall in love just because the ''needs of love''. This undoubtedly reflects the contemporary perspective of love among the college students. That is, ''instant love'' is a hot point of view nowadays.

 

However, is ''instant love'' really a totally negative proper noun? Does it really means that a person who falls in love fast and easily is totally reckless? Is there any value in it?

Among people who really experience instant love, we find out that getting in love easily isn't their normal behavior patterns.              

''I think I'll still judge based on the current atmosphere and feelings. Most important of all I will based on what kind of person he is.'' Tina, freshmen in English Department who fall in love with her boyfriend in only three days said.

Tina added, I think it is the atmosphere and emotion at that time that makes me promise so easily. Catherine, freshmen in English Department also points out the importance.

Tina says, ''Getting together with him so easily has many obstacles to face. For example, the different personality that we didn't even find out before.''

''The most troublesome thing that cannot be ignored is the totally different values between the two people.'' Catherine replied.

What's more interesting is that when asking if they regret their decision or not. Catherine said that she somehow feels regretful that she didn't clearly understand her ex-boyfriend before falling in love with him. 

However, Tina points out that if one can put him or herself into the other’s situation and adjust the shortcomings, the relationship can go longer.

To researcher’s surprise, Catherine emphasizes that what’s interesting in instant love is that you will always get surprise when he or she does something unique that you didn't even think of before, which can warm up the affection.